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I’ll carry these torches for you.

“I’m not going to do extra if you aren’t going to do your part.” I’ve been struggling with S not listening. For years now. Consequences nor rewards really make any difference. He’ll even weigh consequences to see if it’s worth … Continue reading

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Like shooting stars.

I was driving and L was talking about going to visit Grandma. This is how our conversations usually go. L: How we get there? me: Well, it’s pretty far away. We could drive there. L: Okay! me: But that would … Continue reading

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The fire in your eyes.

Today I brought a freshly baked loaf of bread home from the store. My daughter was all ooooooh. I excitedly said, “feel how squishy!” She felt it and I could tell she wasn’t on board with my excitement. I said, … Continue reading

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The fire in your eyes.

Today I brought a freshly baked loaf of bread home from the store. My daughter was all ooooooh. I excitedly said, “feel how squishy!” She felt it and I could tell she wasn’t on board with my excitement. I said, … Continue reading

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Approach. Appear.

I didn’t know what the rest of my day would look like earlier when I wrote. I felt on top of everything, but in that way where you are until you suddenly aren’t. I finished my paper clutter pile from … Continue reading

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Trying to fight when you feel like flying.

The question is… How do you proceed when you know so much about growth mindset, and the situation just sucks, and you want to reach out to someone, but don’t want advice and just want the comfort of someone’s knowing … Continue reading

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The middle of nowhere.

For all intents and purposes, I had a really great week. I had my kids home all week. My in laws (whom I love) came over for Christmas. I’ve had a bizarrely great relationship with my mother for the last … Continue reading

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I’ll wait up for you, dear.

I had such a nice day with my husband. This sounds a little odd to say, seeing as it was a day filled with family and goings on and the neverendingness. But also. I had such a nice day with … Continue reading

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The minor fall and the major lift.

What a difference a year (or six) can make. The last two weeks have been one crazy thing after another. My insurance is no longer accepting my doctor and physical therapist, so I either have to change insurance or change … Continue reading

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Damn sure better than rain.

I went to my first Al-Anon meeting. I wasn’t nervous at all when I left for the meeting. When I got there and sat down I was suddenly doing all my nervous things. People were inviting and warm, but also … Continue reading

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